I need to make my comment here on this post. Would I wish some bad/tragic memories to be deleted? Nope. Some here will agree, some will disagree and some will just shrug and have no opinion. Fair enough. We all handle events differently. I will not go into detail (some of you will know anyway) but although one of my worst nightmares came true I would not be the same person I am today, mentally and emotionally stronger because of the memories. Even simple, silly and embarrassing memories have shaped us into who we are. Do you not like who you are? Then don't let those memories take you over. They are YOUR memories, no one elses's and if you don't like them, deal with them. I had to. No, it's not easy. It never is. But you live with it. It's always up to you.