Not farm, but NY and being raised without a dad and a having a skinny mom.... and the epiphany of being through with being bullied and deciding to train to punch somebody to the moon... and boxing... and Judo... and growing up in the hood running with crips.... and running the streets... and being hell bent on being able to do whatever it is on my own since I'm an only child, so I never had a partner in crime, and knowing that 9.5/10 if I can't figure it out myself I don't have enough family nearby to do it for/with me... Me being stubborn, I will die trying before I seek out somebody to help me do something most of the time.